@appelbio , out of interest really, and no offense, but why are you talking in English? You come across as a Dutchman to me.
Don't get me wrong, you are allowed to speak English, there are more (foreign) members that do so, but to me, your text really looks like it is a Dutch text that you translated into English. Like, the acronym "dvp" that you use is 100% Dutch, and the phrase "get the click with someone" also looks like a Dutch text translated into English, (a native English speaker would say "to click with someone").
To dive into your question... clicking is something that's hard to force. You need matching personalities, you need to get to know each other a bit, you need some luck... some escort agencies or Kinky adverts or even clubs have elaborate descriptions of their ladies, there you can maybe see beforehand whether you're compatible or not. Then there's online reviews, where you can sometimes see the character of the ladies shine through (including window ladies, the group you're interested in), that too you can use. And last but not least, there's the simple chat you may have before charging in. That too you can use to see if you may click or not.